ENERGY EXCHANGE & BINDING BETWEEN PEOPLE


Energy is free flowing & is within us, others & all around. When energy is not allowed to flow freely is when challenges & blocks arise. Know your energy & what feels right, insure that you make choices that are aligned with your innermost knowing. 

There are various types of energy interaction between people:

Equivalent exchange usually exists between close people with good mutual understanding & nice favorable relations. If this is at work, then people are great partners, they do not need many words to explain to each other the essence of the matter, they are able to agree on any issue.

Married couples with an equivalent energy exchange usually look like a model of ideal partnership & well-being. Of course, all sorts of twists & turns happen, but still the balance is maintained in any adversity. Sometimes it happens that an equivalent exchange of spouses is invisible to others & leave a strange impression as if one of the spouses is literally following the lead of the other, but such an impression is almost always misleading. Such families are like closed systems, well-established internal mechanisms that live independently of external circumstances. At the same time it might seem, these spouses can argue endlessly, they can be distant or practically not notice each other. Spouses with an equivalent energy exchange never make decisions without consulting their other half & again, this can stay incomprehensible or invisible to outsiders. Their energy integrity is the key to long life together & prosperity.

Equal energy exchange between friends & neighbors is characterized by absolute unobtrusiveness & trouble-free mutual assistance & support.

Equivalent energy exchange is easy to fix.

Energy vampirism. People who are vampires, telling you endlessly about their misfortunes & problems, trying initially evoke sympathy in you which later turns into a dull irritation. If in friendly, neighborly & work relationships it is still possible to somehow adapt to the vampires, trying not to feed them & not lose energy, then in a marriage living together is almost unbearable for the donor. A vampire can have an equivalent exchange with other people & only draw energy from one particular person. A donor spouse who constantly feeds a vampire spouse can gradually become a vampire himself in relation to colleagues, neighbours, friends or his own children. Being irritated by the loss of his well-being, he may be constantly dissatisfied with everything, begin to make scandals, which eventually lead to a divorce, or, unable to resist the pressure of the vampire, begins to get sick, wither & may even die at a young age as tension associated with the constant loss of mental & physical strength can cause a fatal disease.
Attracting other's energy on oneself can also be positive. There are those people who's shoulders everyone wants to cry on. Often they become professional psychologists, teachers, doctors. They tend to draw negative energy onto themselves, process it & release it into the purified space. There are more of these people today than ever before, indicating that our Mother Earth needs urgent cleansing in order not to fade, suffocated in the negative energy of people.
There are also hidden vampires who under the guise of compassion & the desire to help everyone, often unconsciously try to lure on themselves our energy of gratitude. Sadly, most often these are people who did not receive love in their childhood.

Talisman against energy vampires:

There are many ways to protect yourself from energy vampires. One of the protection options is a personal talisman, which you can easily make for yourself at home.
For such a talisman you need to stock up:
woolen thread of red color ca 85 cm
red pebble, crystal, coral in the form of a pendant or a red bead - wooden, painted
essential oils: myrtle, lemon, wormwood
It is better to create a talisman in the evening, during the full moon the talisman will turn out even stronger.
Mix  9 drops of lemon oil, 3 drops of wormwood oil & 13 drops of myrtle oil in a container.
Soak the red thread with this mixture.
Pick up a pendant- pebble, crystal or whatever you've chosen. Hold it in your palms, placing your hands first at the level of the heart, then at the level of the solar plexus. Mentally fill the pendant with light & protective forces.
Pass the thread through the pendant. Place the pendant in the center. Make 6 knots on both sides of the pendant along the entire length of the thread. You should have 12 knots in total. 13 knot - the one with which you tie the talisman around your neck. It is important to wear it constantly & it is desirable that it be under clothing & not seen by everyone.

Mother & child have a special energy relationship. Mother has the right & opportunity to help her child in absolutely everything. It is so important that there is a close connection of spiritual kinship & love between them. For a child, a mother is a conductor of cosmic energy & a father is a conductor of earthly energy. Therefore, when there is no mother's love, we lose the sky, when there is no father's authority, we feel insecure in human society.

People who are sources of energy strive on giving gifts & are happy seeing the joy of others. Wanting to give to one person, bestows on all the people around. It shines like the sun, gives warmth, shows the way. A sincere desire to give is the ability to establish a direct channel of communication between the Higher powers, the Universe & people. People as sources of energy do not actually generate so many forces themselves, but are mostly conductors of the Universe. Everyone can, but not all people have the ability to be a source of energy for others & have the ability to channel the energy of the Universe (which does not have to be the only source of energy).
There is no need to be afraid to be a donor, just make sure your donations are conscious & intended, otherwise, you will burn out in other people's problems without solving your own. If you feed someone endlessly, trying to help & the person only uses your energy & is not going to change something in his life himself, then you do not bring him any benefit. You place somebody else's burden on your shoulders.

The neutral energy position is associated with the protection & conservation of energy. Each person has moments in life when he should not enter into energy exchange with other people:
when you feel your strength is limited
the tension is on the verge of collapse
you know you need a break
when you feel the presence of a vampire & do not want to feed him
when you do not want to give any information about yourself
when you are annoyed or angry & do not want to splash out your negativity on others, wanting to understand it & deal with it yourself
when you feel psychic pressure on yourself & want to maintain your energy freedom.

Each person has the right to enter or not to enter into energy interaction with the world around him.
Sometimes it is necessary to close up but it may be difficult to learn to be neutral at same time. We may think that we have closed, but instead we have released spikes & do not notice how we are showing aggression towards everyone who is nearby.
Best way to enter to a neutral energy position is a meditation, were we are disconnected from the outside world & at the same time, we control all our actions & our perception of information becomes even more acute, because we become able to single out only what is important for ourselves. We save energy, but at the same time we seem to see the world more clearly & distinctly, understanding ourselves better.

Energy Binding is a negative concept in magic, an anchor, which burdens & pumps out our energy. These anchors need to be cut:

Pity, desire to help, save. Many fall for this bait. Considering that he is doing a good deed, a person can feed such an energy parasite for many years & at the same time think that he will not survive without his support. This is a parasitic relationship.⠀
Resentment is considered one of the strongest, negatively affecting health. When upset, a person again & again returns with thoughts to the offender, generously giving his life energy to him.
Revenge, the desire to prove one's case. It is difficult to forget & let go of a person, when every now & then you scroll through an ominous plan of retribution in your head, imagine what you will say to him, what kind of face he will have then ...
Guilt is very unproductive emotion, because a person cannot change the past in any way, but is engaged in self punishment. Here we are dealing with aggression directed at oneself. Anyone who feels guilty before another often thinks about how to beg for forgiveness & make amends. The result is a strong bond.
Material. Loans. Dept. Which is not returned, binds two people for a long time, while the larger the amount, the stronger the binding, as money is the materialized energy of Money Egregore.
Sense of duty. “Now I owe you,” one person says to another, thereby creating a powerful attachment. Debts must be repaid, but how if the other person did not ask for anything in return!? Often sincere gratitude is enough.
People live together, they feel like strangers but they cannot move away because they bind each other. What feeds this attachment is habit, a sense of duty, caring for children, attachment to jointly acquired property, pity for a partner. Anything but love.
The need to possess another person, dependence, passion, jealousy, etc. A person thinks constantly about the object of his desire, dreams about it, passionately desiring to get it. A person becomes like a child who is not given a favorite toy. He demands her & sees nothing else around. Not to be confused with love. Love does not infringe on the right to freedom of another.
Unrequited love. This is such a durable thin-material structure that it can greatly spoil a person's health & squeeze all the sense out. Such a state exhausts both the one who loves & the one who is loved. This is a strong vampire attachment. A new love cannot appear if all the energy goes to the one for whom the person feels unrequited love.
The strongest are the parental bindings. Often parents, especially mothers, strive to completely control their child, strangle his development with their attention & care. It is a form of dependence & a desire to dominate another person. This child will either find the strength to break the bond, which is fraught with a complete cessation of communication with parents, or remain an inferior person. If a mother in adolescence does not accept her son as an independent person & does not let him go, then her energy tightly blocks his main chakras, which leads to major failures in a man's personal life. A woman needs to pay attention to the relationship with her father, even though attachments between a daughter & a father are much less common than between a mother & a son.
Hiding & repressing your true feelings for another person. You should always listen to your heart, casting aside stereotypes & hypocrisy. Sometimes people, feeling love for another, hide it, afraid of seeming stupid, funny, or being rejected. Love must be splashed out, given away, told to another person how good he is, how you appreciate him.
Bindings are sometimes very clingy & if negative emotions are strong, then the bindings persist for several generations in a row.
In order to remove the attachments, you need to realize what emotions you create & feed them with. 




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